Need to be humble? Reminders on killing our pride

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I realize the need to be humble.

To not assume that I know why people do or say what they do. To be humble to realize that I want compassion when I make a mistake and because of that, I should be humble when people do something against me. “Mercy triumphs over judgment.” James 2:13

I will be focusing on changing my default of pride, my default of offense.

I have also been studying Proverbs 8, where David speaks of wisdom being prepared: having mingled her wine, having set her table, and crying out for people to turn in to her. Wisdom was there when God founded the Earth, before anything was ever created. God and wisdom are buddies. When desiring to be wise, remember to be humble.
When we do things, we must examine our reasons for doing it. Is this to make me look good? Is this right? Am I doing this out of my own vanity?
Sometimes, our hearts have been black, bruised and dirty for so long that we are not aware of when our perceptions and beliefs come from. However, if one thinks about God getting to look, not at what everyone else sees, but on what is really in our hearts, we are quickened to change. Am I who I say I am?
How many Aesop fables have morals that show us that things are not always as they appear? The Tortiose can be beat the Hare. The mouse can be a savior to the Lion who is caught in a hunter’s net. Let us try not to jump to conclusions!
Do you know any humble people? I have one in particular that comes to mind. She does make humility her focus, but in doing so, she acchomplishes her goal. She considers all sides and she uses understanding in situations when people are offended by her. She apologizes and states her intentions and thoughts. Though she in her thirties, I count her as wiser than many other women I know.

This is also a YouTube video that is on the subject of mercy over judgment.