Jesus, Jesus How I Trust Him…Oh for Grace to Trust Him More song


I am watching my new baby sleep. So satisfied and full of milk, heavy and relaxed. I am reminded to trust Jesus for my provisions and to relax and drink in the sweetness God has given me.

What a blessing to be a new mom for the third time 🙏🏽🙌🏾💕🤴🏾🫶🏽

Your Calling, Whatever It is….Is Sacred by Dr. Tony Evans


Dr. Tony Evans breaks it all the way down! What did God call you to do?

Pamper Your Man

🥰😍🥰😍🥰 I highly recommend this article! Our husbands, our loved one need pampering to feel that extra care and attention. Very much appreciated.
Same sentiments, more examples.

Men need love and affection too, give it to them! In your home, you are the queen of the castle if you are a woman and he is the king of the castle. Does he feel like a King? Do you feel like a Queen? If not, how can you change that? If you have children, should the princes or princesses get in the way of the King reigning 🤴🏾 or getting his needs met so that he can care for the castle and the kingdom?

Lately, I have been teaching my son to have king behavior! To realize that in history, there have been boy kings. Young children who have had to assume roles of authority and leadership and it all starts with the behavior and example of the king. The Bible tells us that a wife can win her husband without a word through her chaste and obedient behavior. So if we treat our sons and husbands as kings, we will see them rise to the occasion. Similarly, if we raise our daughters to care for the home as Titus 2 states, we are raising a future Queen.

Praising God for the victory ✌️

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Do you ever get tired of yourself? Of repeating the same mistakes? Financially? Relationally? Emotionally? Mentally? With time?

My prayer today is what David prayed.

Psalms 139: 23-24

Search my heart, oh Lord, try my reins; test me and know my concerns. See if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the everlasting way.

Raising kids you can see your flaws sharply and distinctively. This morning I read Isaiah 5 and I am familiar with the passage. (So it terrified me and I prayed right away, Lord, please help me to be worthy and produce good fruit 🍌 🍉 🍎 according to all You have put into and invested in me.

I gotta get going on obedience and doing what I know is right. ⚖️ in 2023, it is time to hold myself more accountable and not let myself make excuses for my actions, especially my inactions.

I am normally a consistent evangelizer, but for the past two years, I have been slacking. Judges 5 and 6 tell the story of Gideon and how his doubt did not stop him from having faith. God wanted to do a special miracle through someone who was seen as afraid and low and small; because in all things, God should and must get the glory.

Praying for the removal of materialism, distractions, fear, social media pressures and anxiety, and for all those things to be replaced with PEACE, FAITH AND CONFIDENCE in Jesus name!

Love you,


Terry Wallace’s “Yield Not to Temptation”


Let Your Power Fall


Praise God



This verse tells us to keep a ready answer for why we believe in Jesus Christ!

What a blessing to get to share the stories and things God has done for us not only personally, but collectively, globally and outside of time!!!

Always have a smile because you are God’s child! A Chosen Vessel! Your circumstances don’t matter in evangelism🎉🙏🏽💕 I wish you know that your God is awesome, I am guilty of missing opportunities to evangelize, but I am going to do better!




“I remember your genuine faith, for you share the ufaith that first filled your grandmother Lois and your mother, Eunice. And I know that same faith continues strong in you. This is why I remind you to fan into flames the spiritual gift God gave you when I laid my hands on you. For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline. So never be ashamed to tell others about our Lord. And don’t be ashamed of me, either, even though I’m in prison for him. With the strength God gives you, be ready to suffer with me for the sake of the Good News. For God saved us and called us to live a holy life. He did this, not because we deserved it, but because that was his plan from before the beginning of time—to show us his grace through Christ Jesus.”

‭‭2 Timothy‬ ‭1:5-9‬ ‭NLT‬‬


Tabitha was a beautiful person who showed her faith by her works. She gave and sewed clothes for the poor.

The devotional explores what people will say about us when we die.

In the end, the love we showed will be most important.

Love ❤️


The Truth About My Marriage


Marriage is a blessing.

At one time in my life, I hated marriage and never wanted to be married. I looked at my parents’ relationship and the lack of real love and support and joy, plus my fear of adultery and being controlled kept me far far away in my heart. I had two main reasons: one I assumed or just thought that this vixen at my dad’s job had led him into infidelity and I could not imagine that as great and beautiful as my mom was & two I did not like when my dad spoke harshly and made everyone in the family feel stupid and unworthy. I wanted to be free and never be made to cry by a man. I never wanted to beg a man to stay with me. I never wanted this, I never wanted that. All of my motivations against marriage were hard-fast and negative: I didn’t know any happily married couples. I didn’t see anyone having fun in marriage. I had secrets in my heart that became words and those words became my attitude and my character as the quote goes.

But God had healing for me.

He had a man that He had selected me for and him for me. Every marriage is a covenant with God and if you Google “What is the marriage trend in America?”, the statistics will alarm you. The Bible says that the purpose of marriage is to raise godly offspring and bring glory to God.

I have not always done that. Marriage tests you and pulls out your flaws and weaknesses. The flaws come from my ego, my experiences, my heart. Yet, God giveth more grace.

I pray that my marriage will continue to grow into a testimony, despite all our imperfections.



“Beloved, I wish above all things that you may prosper and be in Good Health.”


3 John 2:2 New King James Version

Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers.

3 John New King James Version

Greeting to Gaius

The Elder,

To the beloved Gaius, whom I love in truth:

Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be in health, just as your soul prospers. For I rejoiced greatly when brethren came and testified of the truth that is in you, just as you walk in the truth. I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in [a]truth.

Gaius Commended for Generosity

Beloved, you do faithfully whatever you do for the brethren [b]and for strangers, who have borne witness of your love before the church. If you send them forward on their journey in a manner worthy of God, you will do well, because they went forth for His name’s sake, taking nothing from the Gentiles. We therefore ought to receive[c] such, that we may become fellow workers for the truth.

Diotrephes and Demetrius

I wrote to the church, but Diotrephes, who loves to have the preeminence among them, does not receive us. 10 Therefore, if I come, I will call to mind his deeds which he does, prating[d] against us with malicious words. And not content with that, he himself does not receive the brethren, and forbids those who wish to, putting them out of the church.

11 Beloved, do not imitate what is evil, but what is good. He who does good is of God, [e]but he who does evil has not seen God.

12 Demetrius has a good testimony from all, and from the truth itself. And we also [f]bear witness, and you know that our testimony is true.

Farewell Greeting

13 I had many things to write, but I do not wish to write to you with pen and ink; 14 but I hope to see you shortly, and we shall speak face to face.

Peace to you. Our friends greet you. Greet the friends by name.


  1. 3 John 1:4 NU the truth
  2. 3 John 1:5 NU and especially for
  3. 3 John 1:8 NU support
  4. 3 John 1:10 talking nonsense
  5. 3 John 1:11 NU, M omit but
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Feelings: Life and the Unknown


Have you ever reflected on how much you want things to be as easy or as stable as they were yesterday?

And inevitably, they are not.

The new school year is starting and already things are different. New teachers. New rules. New procedures. New schedules.

Same old materials.

Time to be resourceful.

Time to innovate.

Time to be proactive.

Sometimes you don’t have it in you. Sometimes you do.

Sometimes the other constraints around you and out of your control impede on the good you want to do.

In our minds, we all know what is right, but as the Bible says, “The Spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.”

Lord, strengthen our flesh so that we can live out the days of our lives as good examples for Christ. Give us energy despite the things in life that drain and drag us down. Help us to remember former times of hardship and bear up under the weight. Help us to be realistic and honest about what we are working with and help us to be fair with one another.

Please forgive us for longing for days of old and help us to make the future as useful as it can be. Forgive us for missed opportunities and help us to see clearly for the opportunities we have in the future.

Bless us to not let our emotions and circumstances control us, but to do as Paul and press forward toward the mark of the high calling in Jesus Christ.

In Jesus name,



Take Refuge in the Lord and Rejoice


Scripture to read today: 2 Timothy Chapters 1 & 2 and Psalms 5.

Pray for others and pray for mercy for them. Pray for all leaders and pray for those who love the Lord. Pray for your enemies and pray for your protection. Pray for the discouraged and pray for help.

With love,

❤️ Retrostank

Affirmations For Pregnant Women ❤


I was researching videos on pregnancy and thoroughly enjoyed this one!

 Philippians 4:8. Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.

God has blessed you with a new life and He will provide! Trust, listen, and obey!

The Self-Funded Latina Haircare Co. Beating Big Name Brands | by Supermaker | | Medium


Today, we chat with Julissa Prado, founder and CEO of Rizos Curls, a curly-hair product line whose mission is to help their customers embrace their natural curly hair texture. I went to UCLA and…
— Read on



How can someone so smart,turn out quite so stupid too?How come someone so lovedcould turn out quite so cruel? There are ever circumstances;and ever …


Good Read: “…in humility count others more significant than yourselves.”


This article was written in the beginning of the pandemic. It chronicles how the changes rolled out so quickly and the messages of joy in spite of the trouble.

“The Syllabus of Stewardship” by Pastor Howard-John Wesley


Amen, amen!

The Parable of the Talents

We are the managers of the talents and gifts that God has given us and nothing in our life is a permanent possession. It is all a gift from God and a result of His goodness! God expects a return on His investment in us. At Judgment, we will be rewarded for what we have done in this body, good or bad.

Praying to be a good steward in the name of Jesus!


What is Your Focus?

Mind., Spirit and In-Spirit-ation, The Vent, Writing

I read this article and it coincides with an article my best friend Brittany sent me today about thoughts.

We can think about so much of what we do not want that we absolutely miss what God wants and the fact that we have the time and space to do what He is asking. I look at my life and see it as a tangle of yarn that I am trying to see how it got like that. If I look back over my year, I can see some highlights and some firsts, and even people who benefited. But (and I know it is a faux pas to start a sentence with but,) if my ball of yarn life is only fun to a kitten who randomly plays with it, rather than being a crochet blanket or pot holder that helps those closely surrounding me, am I really effective? And so no. I am not effective and I am not focused as June 5th, 2022. I am taking time to assess myself and my works and my faith and my intentions and my pride and my ego and my go-getter qualities that led to my will being done rather than God’s. And I pray that I will get on track in a timely and dedicated manner.

You know how you look back at your life and see points when you were so sure and so committed and so in the saddle and you wonder where that person has gone? Or what perfect circumstances where being held together or who were you studying or what were your habits and your thoughts?

The good thing about it is that we are alive and breathing.

The bad part about it is that we let it get here. I repent of the here I am at currently.

If I were to write out all the self-inflicted negatives, I would be thoroughly embarrassed because my actions do not reflect someone who knows Christ/God is the source of all their blessings. The main theme that you would see is a lack of stewardship, organization and planning. And I have actively tried in the past to correct those things but not with the gusto I really needed. I was doing it one toe in the water instead of fully jumping in and it goes back to my thoughts.

Do I really see myself as capable? Am I able to stand my ground and maintain in the face of opposition?

This article is the answer to all my running and escapism from the real problem: my own lack of focus.

I hope it helps you as much as it did me.


Mz Akins


My mother, audacious and vivacious, decorated my childhood with painted clay vase projects, where we mixed water and flour in our hands and baked the little half moon dishes while we ate Chips Ahoy and Oreo cookies. She would have us make magnets out of multicolored pieces and she showed us how creativity makes life great. 

VIPKid Teachers: What Colors To Wear


Hello World!

VIPKid teahcers teach English as a Second Language to Chinese students of different ages and mastery levels.

This article is to teach you what to wear to make the biggest positive impact on your students.

I have found success wearing red sweaters or red lipstick. If this is your first time hearing about VIPKid, it is an online platform that provides curriculum to teachers to teach ESOL. You have flexibility of choosing your own schedule,

You can use my referral code if you would like to join:

http://Vip Kid Referral Code

I cooked rice and Brussels sprouts and Parmesan crusted fish (recipe here Herb-crusted fish with rice).  It was absolutely divine! My two year-old did NOT think so, he wanted no parts of the rice or fish and definitely not the Brussels sprouts! I tried to calmly continue eating, but I literally had no Earthly idea what this child would eat because the cabinets were stocked with cereals, pancake mix, and oatmeal; all too sweet to be considered a healthy toddler supper. He ran from the dinner table to Elmo, playing in Daddy and Mama’s bedroom (the #1 spot where all kids want to be).


2 Peter 1:4-9


Whereby are given unto us exceeding great and precious promises: that by these ye might be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust. And beside this, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue; and to virtue knowledge; And to knowledge temperance; and to temperance patience; and to patience godliness; And to godliness brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness charity. For if these things be in you, and abound, they make you that ye shall neither be barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. But he that lacketh these things is blind, and cannot see afar off, and hath forgotten that he was purged from his old sins.
2 Peter 1:4-9 KJV



I hope this short piece sets someone free of their guilt. Repentance DOESN’T mean that you’ll never think of your sin anymore. But, it DOES mean that you won’t linger on those thoughts when they enter your mind. Repentance DOESN’T meant that you won’t desire the sin anymore…Because the enemy will continue to use any […]


Mental Health in Marriage Ep. 2 — Mommy’s Mental Hangover


Tonight we discuss how we handled my anxious/emotional/stressful day. This is very therapeutic for us but as very scary being this vulnerable. We know how hard but important these conversations are to have with your loved ones. PLEASE: Watch, share, and comment/leave questions

Mental Health in Marriage Ep. 2 — Mommy’s Mental Hangover

This was a very useful video for both sides, those helping and those going through!


Did not Earn Salvation, but Obeyed for it


How do you receive salvation?

Through repentance, faith, confession and baptism.

Thank God for His wonderful mercies,

Not perfect, but striving to obey. No matter the location, the sin, or the temptations, through Christ we can be cleansed and forgiven. And changed!



Flexible Accountability


Be flexible and accountable.

Be honest if you make a mistake and flexible when things change. You can do it, roll with the punches and ADAPT!!

This 1:32 video shows an example of how demonstrate that flexible accountability; life requires grace and adaptation!



Do it Full Out


So do it full out!!!

In dance, when you practice you might go through the counts and the motions to the music 🎶 lightly like uh uh uh uh.

But if somebody important walks in that room or you want somebody to notice you, you do it FULL OUT!! Boom, boom hip boom!

Live for God full out, serve Him with gladness full out!

Matthew 5:16 Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your Father who art 🖼 in Heaven

You are living art and a living Creation to bring God glory!

Bring Him glory FULL OUT!!



Lord, Help Me To Focus On the Flies In My Ointment


Fly in the ointment

fly in the ointment is an idiom that has its origins in a text written thousands of years ago. We will look at the meaning of the phrase a fly in the ointment, the origins of this phrase and some examples of its use in sentences.

A fly in the ointment describes something slightly irritating that ruins the overall picture, the enjoyment or success of a situation. A fly in the ointment is a minor drawback that keeps someone from proclaiming a complete success. The idiom fly in the ointment most probably has its roots in the Old Testament, in the book of Ecclesiastes. In the King James version, translated in the early 1600s, the passage reads: “Dead flies cause the ointment of the apothecary to send forth a stinking savour: so doth a little folly him that is in reputation for wisdom and honour.” Well over one hundred idioms in common usage can be traced to the King James translation of the Bible. Interestingly, the first use of the idiom a fly in the ointment didn’t appear in the English language until early in the 1700s, in the book A Practical Treatise Concerning Humility by John Norris.Advertisement

I catch myself talking about the irritating things about others or complaining or praying fo someone else to change, but do I beg God to change me?

Am I aware of the offense things that I am do, say and cause that are stenches in the nostrils of those I offend? Can I be neutral in critiquing my flaws? Honest in estimating my success and my imperfections? Can we say that we know God if do not mortify the deeds of our members?

For if ye live after the flesh, ye shall die: but if ye through the Spirit do mortify the deeds of the body, ye shall live. (Romans 8:13)

I had this phrase repeating in my head, the deeds of the flesh and the deeds of the Spirit are manifest. So that means that others can see if you are good…others can see if there are gaping holes.

Proverbs 9:1Wisdom has built her house;

she has carved outa her seven pillars.

2She has prepared her meat and mixed her wine; 

she has also set her table.

3She has sent out her maidservants; 

she calls out from the heights of the city.

4“Whoever is simple, let him turn in here!” 

she says to him who lacks judgment.

5“Come, eat my bread 

and drink the wine I have mixed.

6Leave your folly behind, and you will live; 

walk in the way of understanding.”

7He who corrects a mocker brings shame on himself; 

he who rebukes a wicked man taints himself.

8Do not rebuke a mocker, or he will hate you; 

rebuke a wise man, and he will love you.

9Instruct a wise man, and he will be wiser still; 

teach a righteous man, and he will increase his learning.

10The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, 

and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.

11For through wisdomb your days will be multiplied, 

and years will be added to your life.

12If you are wise, you are wise to your own advantage; 

but if you scoff, you alone will bear the consequences.

I want so badly to be like Wisdom. I love the personification of Wisdom as a woman who is wisely preparing her home for company.

Yet, I see ways that I need to get the dead flies out of my ointment and I need to be patient to achieve the prize.





Grace in Greek, charis- is the unmerited favor of God toward man that was made possible by the sacrificial offering of Jesus on the cross. Grace is …


Give people GRACE! Be okay with where they are and when they hurt you, forgive them.

Treat people how you want to be treated!

Be humble, forgiving, gracious, and grateful; It will help YOU FIND CONTENTMENT! 💃🏽

Parable of the Talents


How many of us have talents that we are hiding? Or that we are to scared to share?

How could you hid your light…from shining?

God said, “There is a lamp stand put it right THERE!!””

Remember, Matthew 5:16 and “Let your 💡 LIGHT so shine before men that they may see your good works and GLORIFY your Father which art in Heaven!”

Let them look at your beautiful talents and know that there is a good God above, share that art, that acting, that singing, that cooking, that creating, that rap, that pottery, that furniture, that instrument so they can KNOW there is still a God above!!

Read this parable of Jesus to see what it looks like when you do it right and when you do it wrong.

With love,


“What You’re Saying When You Give Someone the Silent Treatment Social ostracism has been a common punishment for millennia. But freezing someone out harms both the victim and the perpetrator.” By: Daryl Austin of the Atlantic


As a person who has given people closest to me the silent treatment when I was so mad that I didn’t want to put it into words, I have recently learned that the silence kills as well.

Very thought-provoking article that I must share for the good of us all.

Hope you enjoy!


You are not too young or too anything, if God chose you


“Then the word of the Lord came unto me, saying, Before I formed thee in the belly I knew thee; and before thou camest forth out of the womb I sanctified thee, and I ordained thee a prophet unto the nations. Then said I, Ah, Lord God! behold, I cannot speak: for I am a child. But the Lord said unto me, Say not, I am a child: for thou shalt go to all that I shall send thee, and whatsoever I command thee thou shalt speak. Be not afraid of their faces: for I am with thee to deliver thee, saith the Lord. Then the Lord put forth his hand, and touched my mouth. And the Lord said unto me, Behold, I have put my words in thy mouth. See, I have this day set thee over the nations and over the kingdoms, to root out, and to pull down, and to destroy, and to throw down, to build, and to plant.”

‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭1:4-10‬ ‭KJV‬‬

Naaman and the Servant Girl


Watch “Naaman and the Servant Girl” in the Superbook Bible app!

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“Count your many blessing and see what the Lord has done.” -Church of Christ song Look What the Lord Has Done

Always be grateful.


Devos for Teens – Stand Where the Fire Has Been


Devos for Teens – Stand Where the Fire Has Been
— Read on

This is a inspiring story about how to stand when a fire is raging around you.



Kurt Carr and Natalie King Cole “I Almost Gave Up”

Christ, Creativity, Entertainment, RetroStank

Don’t give up!!

2020 is hard but don’t let go!

God has not left you. There might be some changes you need to make in your circle, changes in your thinking, in your habits.

Lord God, Heavenly Father, hold us up!

Strengthen our hearts, feed our souls so that we can hang on.

Forgive us of our many sins and iniquities!!

As Christmas comes, let us remember that Christ was born to die for our sins and make us right with You! Help me to continue to encourage and serve where I can. May Your perfect will be done in our lives!

In Jesus name I pray!!


Jam of the Day: Jesus Rose With All Power in His 🖐 Hands 🤚

Christ, Jams!! Vibez!! Musik!!, RetroStank

Jesus rose with ALL POWER IN HIS HAND!!

I miss going to worship but this track right here gave me that collective feeling!

My brothers and my sisters, one day we will adore Jesus in person as He descends to Earth! Oh I want to see Him!

We will who believe and have been baptized will be raised on the last day and make our way to Heaven because He rose with all 💥 power in His Hand!


Retro stank

Should Teachers Lay Down the Law?


Some teachers, in an effort to get their students to respect them, decide to lay down the law. But this approach normally fails to give those teachers what they desire.
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The Miracle of Delegation: “What Is Your Entrepreneurial Kryptonite?”


May 2, 2019 6 min read Opinions expressed by Entrepreneur contributors are their own. The following excerpt is from Scott Duffy’s book Breakthrough. …

What Is Your Entrepreneurial Kryptonite?


I found this to be so on-point! It was amazing to see the difference between the two types of entrepreneurs!


Be of a Good Courage no matter what!


If you are down and depressed and you are wasting away, remember that one day you will be with the Lord!

“Even if you are broken, don’t look at and say I am broken. Look at it as I am Still Here! That’s where you have power.” -David Goggins

James 3:13-18 The Right Kind of Wisdom

Christ, RetroStank, Self Esteem, self improvement

“Who is wise and understanding among you? By his good conduct let him show his works in the meekness of wisdom. But if you have bitter jealousy and selfish ambition in your hearts, do not boast and be false to the truth. This is not the wisdom that comes down from above, but is earthly, unspiritual, demonic. For where jealousy and selfish ambition exist, there will be disorder and every vile practice. But the wisdom from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, open to reason, full of mercy and good fruits, impartial and sincere. And a harvest of righteousness is sown in peace by those who make peace.”

‭‭James‬ ‭3:13-18‬ ‭ESV‬‬

“Messy Marriage” Message by Bro. Chris Jackson


Affirm Your Goals 🙏🏾Eric Thomas


Donald Lawrence & Co. “Spiritual”


Galatians 5:22 The Fruits of The Spirit

“You’re not a natural being having a spiritual experience, but you are a spiritual being having a natural experience!”

This song is so beautiful and the meaning so real.



#GivingTuesday Jam of the Day: Damian Marley “There For You”


This song is soothing and true. It speaks of unconditional love and reciprocity.

“You’ve always been there for me, and so I’ll be there for you…”

Love it 😍

Child Piano Prodigy Performs Mozart at Carnegie Hall


I hope to inspire my children to be creative and be the best at their gifts and talents.

Excellent example of excellent parenting creating excellent children.

Our children watch our examples every day. I commit to trying to discipline myself to be a living example of hard work.

Saturday Song of the Day #2: “Something Happens” by Bishop Paul S. Morton


When I call Jesus. Something happens when I call Jesus.

Bishop Paul S. Morton offers a song of confidence. We hope in Jesus and who He is 🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊

Saturday Song of the Day: Karen Clark Sheard “Sunday A.M.”


This beautiful song was on the radio and it just reminds us That Sunday morning is a time to recharge from our week!

A time to lay it on God’s feet. To rest from our labor!

I love the Lord for His Love for me!!!

Hope you are encouraged by this!


Do it


An object in motion remains in motion, an object at rest remains at rest.

Newton’s laws apply to people too!

To fight a slump, keep momentum HIGH